"Virginity" does not exist, it’s a made up concept to make people, especially women to feel bad about their sexuality and having sex. Women are always taught that their virginity is super valuable, as if it is some sort lf commodity. If they "lose" it with the wrong person, or at the wrong time, theyre labeled as a "slut" or "desperate".
Sex is a natural thing, and with all first experiences, we should be gaining something from it, not “loosing” from it.
Hope this helps :)x